Humor is difficult, especially when kids are involved. This is because it has to be tailored for kids, otherwise it’s over their heads or too mature. This personal nature of humor also means real connections have to be made with the intended audience, regardless of age, for it to be funny.

I’ve often relied on humor as a go to tactic to reach kids, whether in the classroom or at home with my own children and grandchildren. It’s also useful for relationship building, de-escalating arguments, and to alleviate uncomfortable situations, even minor ones. So given all that, it’s no wonder humor is a sought after vice.

However, it’s not so simple to incorporate it.

I’m going to address what makes humor difficult and how to overcome those barriers, especially when it comes to kids. And along the way, I’ll add some tips and tricks for you regarding using humor, and some examples to help make it clearer.

Why Writing Humor Is Difficult

One way to build humor with your kids is to use it strategically through routines or regular activities. For instance, our Fun Jokes For Kids Coloring Book is a great tool for embedding humor through kid-friendly activity.

When teaching anything, I often used written expression in my student learning activities. This, however, can be particularly problematic for humor though.

Writing humor is difficult because you aren’t able to utilize many of the features of comedy like tone, delivery, and body language. With written humor, it’s often about plays on words (puns) and direct analogies. But given that, written humor works well with simple, structured comedy.

I once heard a bit from comedian Jerry Seinfeld about how when he comes up with a joke, he often writes it down first as it goes through his comedic process.

In fact, I believe this was included in an episode of his 90s hit show, Seinfeld.

He was staying in a hotel, woke in the middle of the night with a ‘perfect joke’ and scribbled it down on a napkin by his bedside. Unfortunately, it was later tossed by the housekeeper, and naturally this dilemma became central to the episode.

I know, from my years as an educator, that the act of writing something down can actually help one learn it; it’s called kinesthetic learning, and is a tool that is frequently used. Not to mention, being proficient in writing is crucial to our lifestyle and work force, so again, teaching it takes up a significant amount of time in education.

Teaching the practice of ‘writing humor’ pairs many skills, so this is why it’s a difficult or complex process.

It’s not just the process of writing that is used here, either, which any teacher (and just about all students) will tell you is a feat in and of itself! But no, it’s also about teaching the skill of comedy. This adds a whole other level of difficulty!

So for teaching writing, I most incorporated a writer’s workshop model (you can learn more about this by clicking the Amazon link to a resource I used back in the day). During workshop, you teach the mechanics of writing (the grammar, syntax, organization and such) within teaching writing style as a whole (the composition and story of what you want to say).

But this article isn’t going to focus on that. No, let’s say we have that down and now we’re looking at how to write humorously.

As explained already, comedy often relies on one’s tone- your voice level and expression, or how you say something. This is key to a good comedian.

Comedy also depends upon one’s body language. From shuffling feet to flailing hands to the myriad of ways you can say something with just a look, a comedian can get his joke across with body language, and very few actual words.

And then, there’s delivery. Timing, pacing, and grouping words and phrases together can make all difference in humor.

But, the hard part is that when you’re writing humor, those devices are not possible. You really have to get your comedy across without those methods of helping you do it. This is why it’s so dang difficult!

• With young kids, I’d actually teach them to write jokes out one by one. A very popular joke style with children is knock-knock jokes, so it’s often what I’d start with. With teaching about knock-knock jokes, the structure helps a lot. Once kids understand the structure, then you can help them improve on how to make it funny (the analogies; puns; and so on).

• With older kids, I’d teach about writing humor through narratives and story telling. Kids love to tell personal stories, and if something funny or silly happened to them I’d have them retell it verbally, and then in writing (if you ask them directly, they’ll usually all be able to come up with ‘a time something funny happened’). Retelling verbally helps them put their story together, kind of like an outline or first draft before putting it to paper.

So as you can see, writing humor is not so simple and takes time. Again, this is due to the myriad of skills it takes, from writing in general to adding comedic elements.

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Humor Is Difficult For Kids- Explained

So why exactly is humor difficult for kids to get?

Humor is difficult for kids due to their mental limitations and lack of experience. Kids don’t have the mental capacity to grasp sarcasm, satire, irony, and complex analogies and associations. They also lack background knowledge that’s often needed for comedy.

As kids age, though, their abilities to understand humor improves, in general. Keep in mind, of course, there is a variation in each person’s individual ability for humor, too.

This is why humor has to be gradual. For your youngest kids, slapstick works best and comedy that in totally out of the norm or nonsensical like dad wearing mom’s shoes or speaking in gibberish talk. Kids will find that very funny.

The more vocabulary kids have the better their take on humor is as well. This is simply due to vocabulary needed to understand the joke-what’s actually being relayed or told for laughs, in other words.

To help your child with humor, you can actually teach the joke. Explain what makes it funny. The more they’re able to get the structure behind the humor, the better they’ll be later on to getting the joke on their own.

Another way you can help your child with humor is to actively incorporate humor in your daily lives. You can read joke books together; tell jokes purposefully; watch comedy specials- all ways to embed humor in your environment. The more you surround your child with humor the better chance he’ll have with improving his understanding of comedy.

Some Child-Friendly Funny Programs (Select what’s most appealing for your child):

• Mr. Bean
• SpongeBob SquarePants
• Elmo
• Kung Fu Panda
• Phinneas and Ferb
• Full House
• Animaniacs

Some Tips for Making Humor Less Difficult for Kids:

1. Embed humor in your daily life. From laughing about mistakes to keeping a positive attitude to being flexible in your routine to incorporating funny/fun activities, you can add humor indirectly.
2. Actively add humor. Besides embedding humor indirectly, it’s important to be proactive with humor too. Watch funny movies together, for instance. As well, tell jokes as part of your routine.
3. Play board games. While not all board games are designed specifically for humor (i.e. Monopoly; Checkers; Trouble), you’re bound to laugh and have fun while playing them. However, there are some made especially for humor purposes, so you can incorporate those too.
4. Hose a Family Improv too. Invite friends if you want as well to expand the audience. It may seem over the top, but it’s apt to become a fun and funny event.

Cultural Difference Is Why Humor Is Difficult

Humor is difficult because of cultural differences. Because each culture has its own social norms and mores, adapting humor to specific cultures is important, and necessary. What’s funny to one culture is not so funny to another; in fact, it may be considered insulting.

An example of how humor must be adapted or modified to a culture for optimum effectiveness is the hit tv show, The Office.

The Office started out as a British comedy series. Because of its popularity, an American version was created. Since both shows are in English, you’d think creating a whole new show wouldn’t be necessary but it was.

While some Americans like watching the British ‘The Office’, it’s decidedly British humor. Mainstream America preferred an American version, which became wildly successful, much more so than even its predecessor. This shows a difference in British and American humor.

As well, the series went on to having a German version, as well as Indian version, adapting and adjusting the humor for the culture of its audience (even though we all know the American version of The Office is the best!)

To put it another way, humor is cultural because humor often uses daily life and routines as its basis- the ‘funny’ or punchline is connected to what’s normal or expected. For example, the show mentioned earlier, Seinfeld, was about finding humor in daily observances. And obviously, everyday life in Germany and what’s observed there is going to be different from everyday life in middle Oklahoma or the southern tip of Japan!

Humor Is Difficult Because It’s Personal

Similar to the reason humor is difficult for children is that humor is difficult because it’s personal. The personal caveat of humor is why humor has to be tailored precisely for kids, for instance. And well, humor has to be tailored, in essence, for everyone!

Humor is difficult because of its personal requirement. Comedians must conform their humor for their specific audience. This is why comedians will adjust their standard bits depending on where their show is, often having multiple versions from G to R ratings of the same comedy.

It’s also how certain people or groups are known for a type of humor. So for instance, boomer humor is about the good ol’ days and jokes connected to working hard, and grit. Millennial humor is going to be more about social issues and technology, more than likely.

There’s ‘mom humor’ too. Mom jokes are going to be about parenting, wine imbibing, and work-life balance. Dad jokes are known for being cheesy, corny…and include topics like yard work and sports.

All of this is to show that humor is connected to the audience. If the audience is young, the jokes will need to be shaped to their interests rather than the interests of an over-40 crowd. Likewise, if the audience is female jokes should be able topics more relatable to them than a crowd of all-men.

And of course, there’s going to be some commonalities and ‘blurred lines’ from one group to another, but in general, audiences have natural tendencies to what they find funny based on their group identities.

The Punchline for Humor Is Difficult

The main thing to takeaway from this article about humor being difficult is that humor is closely connected to its audience. Because of this, it means humor should be tailored or adjusted to be relatable. If the audience can’t relate, they won’t be able to find it funny.

And because kids have limited capacity for understanding humor and lack relevant experiences, humor is particularly difficult for them, which is why simple, obvious humor like slapstick is their preferred style.

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Zoomer humor is a struggle for just about anyone outside their generation. And it’s not the generational divide per se that’s perplexing; that’s always existed. It’s more about grasping the meaning of zoomer humor, which is nonsensical, ironic, often un-funny, and changes at rapid pace.

As a mom of both millennial and zoomer kids (I’m a Gen X-er), I often find myself wondering if my children are just being ‘individual’ or if their differences are due to being products of their respective generations. It’s with this in mind that I approached the concept of zoomer humor, actually.

So in the quest to learn more about my own kids, I looked into zoomers as a group; comparing zoomers to other generational groups; and zoomer humor examples as I tried to define zoomer humor overall.

And then I shared how you can use all of this to inform your own interactions with the little zoomers in your life! I hope you find the topic of zoomer humor as interesting as I did in researching it!

Zoomers- A Brief Overview

So before moving on to zoomer humor, we need to define what’s meant by zoomer, so here’s a brief overview. Then we’ll move to specifics.

Zoomers make up nearly 20 percent of the US population as of 2022 according to Pew Research Center. They were born between years 1997 and 2012, though there’s some wiggle room with those dates plus/minus a couple of years either way. Essentially they’re today’s ‘young people.’

Some Famous Zoomers:

• Indie Pop Singer Billie Eilish, known as much for her ever changing hair color as she is for her brooding song lyrics
• Political/Environmental Activist from Sweden, Greta Thunberg, (in)famous for her rebuke to world leaders while giving a speech in 2019 at the United Nations (Read more about Greta in ‘Who Is Greta Thunberg?‘, now part of the popular ‘Who Is’ children’s book collection series)
• Singer/Actress Zendaya, who started out as just another Disney darling but easily moved into adultish roles in hits Dune and the (Tom Holland) Spiderman franchise
• Jeon Jung-kook, a K-Pop singer from the uber-popular BTS group
• Barron Trump, youngest son of 45th president, President Donald Trump, and his wife, Melania
• Jake Paul, notorious YouTuber and MMA fighter/Pro boxer
• Broadway star, Jahi Di’Allo Winston, who began in a break-out role playing young Simba of The Lion King ^{_{(Links above indicate an Amazon affiliate)}}

With each generation known for specific attributes or character traits, stereotypically of course, zoomers have come to be known as socially active; open-minded; concerned; intelligent; well-educated; progressive; and pro-government.

Prior to the pandemic of 2020, zoomers’ future looked economically brighter than their millennial older brothers and sisters. But that’s changed now, just another casualty of Covid-19!

Their socially active/open-mindedness traits are perhaps what put them at odds with older generations, as zoomers lay blame for the world’s problems like pollution, climate change, and overwhelming debt at the feet of boomer grandparents and great-grandparents; Gen X-er parents; and yes, even Millennials who are in some cases just a year or two older.

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Zoomer Defined (AKA Generation Z)

A zoomer, according to Merriam-Webster, became short-hand for the Generation Z population (born around 1997-2012), as recent as 2016. It kind of rolls off the tongue much easier than Gen Z-er. Prior to this connection, it was actually linked to baby boomers, that is, ‘active baby boomers’…zoomers.

zoomer:  a person born in the late 1990s or the early 2000s; Generation Z

Merriam-Webster

Doesn’t it seem ironic that the word zoomer was linked to the polar opposite generation, baby boomers? But in a way, it only makes sense that boomer grandparents/great-grandparents would give something of themselves (e.g. their name) to their grandchildren ‘zoomers’, right?

Other Names For Zoomers:

• Ipad Babies
• Generation Z
• Tik Tok Generation
• Post-Millennials
• iGeneration

Zoomer Memes

Looking at zoomer memes is a logical way to access zoomer humor. To refresh your memory, or to educate you initially, a meme is an image or captioned video that circulates the internet social media platforms. Typically it includes a picture or interactive graphic with text.

Memes are made in various ways, from selecting your own picture/image and adding text to using one of the myriad of apps specifically for making memes (some popular meme-creating apps are PhotoDirector; Mematic; GATM Meme Generator; and Memedroid). Most meme apps are free but have paid memberships that include upgrades and enhancements for your memes. After creating your meme, you save it to your particular device and share with friends/family on Twitter, Face Book, Instagram, or other.

Each generation trends to certain kinds of memes.

• For instance, our older generation, known as boomers, gravitate to cartoon memes of wrinkly old ladies; cats; and references to the good ol’ days. Common topics include degrading technology, the younger generations, and their spouses!

• Generation X-ers, who are the immediate younger generational step from boomers, tend toward memes of Star Wars characters, The Office, and Minions. Their texts often lampoon the war between boomers and millennials as they take a slacker approach to life’s daily grind, and of course, the merits of growing up in the 80s!

• And then there are the millennials. Besides trending #OkBoomer! memes, millennials like to use memes to express their depression, anxiety, and poverty; and enjoy incorporating images of super heroes like Batman and cartoon characters they grew up with such as SpongeBob SquarePants.

So now this takes us to ‘zoomer memes’ which can be used to inform us on zoomer humor.

Some recent popular memes from zoomers incorporate their concern for activism and international thinking. But also zoomer memes trend to partying, slang, and video games. In reality, it seems it’s hard to decipher zoomer memes because the most popular, trending ones often mean nothing.

Let’s look more in depth at this in the next section.

What is zoomer humor?

Zoomer humor is nonsensical, unpopular, ironic, atypical, ever-changing, and rebellious. For example, if it is so badly unfunny, zoomers will find it funny. If it was funny a long time ago, they’ll likely find it funny now. But once any zoomer humor becomes mainstream, it loses it’s appeal.

In other words, zoomer humor has a lot in common with every generation before it too. All tweens and teens want to stand out from anything dad or grandma liked! Nothing is more ‘unfunny’ than something that makes grandma laugh, to a zoomer, then!

Some Commonalities to Zoomer Humor:

• It’s not popular or mainstream. Once it hits the TV news or dad posts about it on Facebook, it’s no longer funny to zoomers.
• It uses nonsense- so the analogies don’t make sense. Zoomers like to put weird or odd things together for no other reason that because they don’t belong.
• It incorporates their slang terms. And again, if mom or dad understand the slang, they’re not used by zoomers anymore.
• Uniqueness is highly valued. And it’s more and more challenging to be unique given social media and how quickly things circulate around the globe!
• It’s low quality. This just means zoomers find it cool to alter or adjust tech and don’t care that they use low-budget ways to do so. It doesn’t have to look expensive or top-notch for them to enjoy it.

How can parents relate to zoomer humor?

To be honest, parents won’t get zoomer humor and if they did, zoomers wouldn’t find it humorous anymore. So what are parents (or grandparents) to do?

Parents can relate to zoomers through humor by discussion. Don’t try to see the humor but let your zoomers tell you why it’s funny, if they will. The main thing is to not ridicule them about it, or say it’s not funny. Just enjoy the moment you’ve lured your zoomer into talking with you!

For instance, if your zoomer is laughing about something he or she is watching or a meme they found funny, ask them about it. And then just smile. Resist the urge to make any more comments, especially negative or sarcastic ones.

Is zoomer humor okay for kids?

Parents shouldn’t be worried about zoomer humor being appropriate or not, anymore than any other kind of humor. In general, zoomer humor is just fine. Most cases it’s just random silliness that won’t make sense to you.

Like with all social media and entertainment, though, you should be privy to what your kids are exposed to. So don’t be afraid to monitor devices and such, keeping in mind your individual child’s level of maturity, your family expectations, and so on.

Special Note: Mainly you can gauge appropriateness of media and influences of humor by your child’s actions and behavior. If you notice your child behaving inappropriately, disrespectfully, or using a lot of put-downs and sarcasm after engaging in zoomer humor memes and such, then that’s cause for limiting it.

Zoomers Vs. Boomers and Millennials

It’s natural to compare generations. I know I’ve done this with my own kids, being that they’re all 5 years or so apart. As such, there are certain traits that are more associated with one group than another.

Boomers consider themselves hardworking. They’ve worked all their lives, from jobs as teenagers to entering the workforce right after high school, or college graduation for some. They’re solid citizens, being homeowners and voters, and loyal to their jobs until retirement. They’ve also come to known as grumpy, curmudgeons, who spend most of their retirement either golfing or complaining, or both.

Compared to boomers, zoomers have a few things in common. Unlike some other generations, zoomers are also thought as hardworking and committed, just to different things than boomers before them, such as environmental awareness and social change.

When zoomers are compared to millennials there’s as much in common as not. Being that the generations are closer in age, they have a lot of similar interests. Yet, they also look at things differently. Where millennials take a more introspective focus like on their depression and anxiety and a dim look on their future, zoomers also see this dim view but take a proactive approach to change, or so it seems.

Zoomer Humor Punchline

So the zoomer humor punchline is that unless you’re a zoomer, you won’t get their humor. It’s not meant for you to.

Gen Z has a unique approach to what they find funny (just like generations before them) and don’t care for others to understand it. In fact, if others do ‘get’ zoomer humor, then zoomers characteristically won’t find it funny anymore.

For parents, and grandparents, then, it’s best not to try to understand zoomer humor, and certainly don’t try to mimic it! Rather focus on the conversation of your zoomer sharing their humor with you, and enjoy that!

And unless you want to halt this sharing altogether, don’t criticize or complain about what they tell you!

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Boomer humor can be just fine for kids, but it’s all about context and intention. Jokes between grandparent and great-grandparent boomers and their grandchildren can boost their relationship and bridge generation gaps, but it’s important that humor stay clean and avoid put downs on both sides.

To be clear, I’m not actually a boomer, but have ‘boomer’ parents. This means my kids and grandchildren see boomers as ‘really, really old’, and that’s not entirely untrue. It’s also true that humor is an excellent means for different generations to get to know one another. However, it can be used as a vice to divide, as well.

Let’s consider how the topic of boomer humor doesn’t have to divide, but can actually enhance multi-generational relationships.

I’ll explain, for those who’ve been living under a rock, what a boomer is; what’s meant by boomer humor; how being called a boomer can mean an insult (“Ok boomer!”); and some pros and cons to guide parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents regarding this humor with kids.

What is a boomer?

So before moving on, we need to make sure we are clear about ‘what’ is a boomer, or who is maybe the better question?

A boomer, according to Merriam-Webster, has several meanings actually. But the one that is referenced the most nowadays is “a person born during a baby boom,” being that this baby boom refers to the years 1946-1964, after the end of World War II, in which there was a rise in babies born.

Since ‘boomers‘ were born between the years of 1946 and 1964, this makes them today’s grandparents and great-grandparents of children.

And because boomers are the ‘oldest generation’ alive today for the most part, it makes sense that there can be a natural discrepancy between their likes; interests; concerns; and lifestyles than other generations, from their children (‘Generation X’…that’s me!) to their grandchildren (millennials born 1981-1995 and Generation Z born 1996-2010) and great-grandchildren (Alpha, born 2011-2025).

Today boomer is used to not only refer to a certain age bracket, but also a type of person, or a certain personality. A boomer connotes someone who is confident, independent, and self-reliant. But these traits also can be called: cocky; headstrong; and narrow-minded. And yes, boomer automatically implies an older person.

Thus, there lies the conundrum.

When boomers think themselves being confident and resilient, a millennial might call them pigheaded and stubborn.

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What’s meant by boomer humor?

So now that a boomer is understood, what’s meant by boomer humor?

Boomer humor goes two ways. There’s the humor by boomers (born from 1946 til 1964), generally a mix of corny jokes; simplistic observations; and disgruntled complaints. Then, there are jokes about boomers, like ‘ok boomer’, a blend of good-natured ribbing and honest dissatisfaction of boomer traits.

One Kind of Boomer Comedian: There are some popular comedians who are of the boomer generation like Ray Romano, Jim Carrey, and Jerry Seinfeld.

Another Kind of Boomer Comedian: And then there are ‘Popular Boomer Comedians’ like Brad Upton; Jeff Allen; and Kim Kerley.

So what’s the difference, you ask?

Well, the former group are popular comedians just for being funny. They consist of a variety of comedians just like all comedians, only they are over age 58.

The latter are popular comedians for their boomer-focused humor. Their style of humor is about being a boomer, or about annoying things boomers don’t like, particularly focused on ‘the younger generations’ presented in a humorous manner.

Popular Boomer Humor Topics:

• The good ol days
• Making fun of ‘allergies’ or other illnesses and maladies
• Talking about their wives
• ‘Old school’ childrearing (like not childproofing your home or using car seats; and letting kids play outside unsupervised)
• State of education/government/economy…’today’
• Working hard and not whining
• Retirement life
• Being grandparents
• Golf
• Restaurants, movies, entertainment…’today’

Now it’s possible for all comedians to have ‘bits’ and stand-up regarding the above topics, but true ‘boomer humor’ features them much more prominently, and zeros in on how it all relates to millennials.

Is it an insult to call someone a boomer?

One thing that usually comes to mind when thinking about boomer humor is the meme/slogan that went viral known as, #okboomer. What does ‘Ok boomer’ mean and is it meant as an insult to call someone ‘boomer’?

To call someone boomer can be considered an insult, but it really depends on intention. To say someone’s a boomer once might be okay, especially if it’s used as an innocent description or good-natured ribbing. However, it should be used with caution in the workplace since it can fall under ageism.

A few years back it became commonplace to hear ‘Ok boomer’ on social media, and even in the news. Apparently it went ‘viral’ or popular rather quickly. It was a reference to ‘old people’ being out-of-touch with societal issues and concerns that seemingly the rest of the world had, but boomers treated as non-issues or overblown.

To “go viral” is used in reference to Internet content which can be passed through e-mail and social media like Facebook, TikTok, Instagram and Twitter. It’s an image (picture or photo); video; or slogan that spreads quickly by being frequently shared with others, according to Urban Dictionary.

So whenever a boomer said something, to all appearances, flippantly about the environment, equality, or other social issues, millennials would respond, ‘Ok boomer’, as sort of a verbal eye roll. It was meant to shut them down without resorting to an argument.

It’s possible for someone to refer to an older person as ‘boomer’ without it being insulting. It’s like name-calling but if you name-call a friend or family member in jest and in the right context, it can be endearing and yes, funny.

However, calling someone boomer can certainly be intended as an insult, and in most cases is intended that way. This is particularly true if the two people involved aren’t close or are in the midst of a disagreement, even if the disagreement is over something light or trivial.

And for sure, calling someone a boomer in the workplace can actually open you up to reprimands, lawsuits, and even losing your job. This is because ageism is illegal and a definite form of discrimination.

Is boomer humor good or bad for kids?

Since boomer humor can be endearing or insulting, how can you discern if it’s good or bad for kids?

Boomer humor can be good for kids since kids like cheesy jokes typical of boomer humor, and can understand the simple, clear cut references and punchlines often used. However, boomer humor can sometimes deal with mature or controversial topics, which some parents could consider bad for their kids.

It all really depends on the parents’ family expectations, and what they think is good or bad for their kids to be exposed to. And on the kids. Parents may think some kids can handle it while others can’t.

In my expert opinion as a teacher and someone with a degree in human learning and behavior, I think parents know their kids best. So trust your gut.

But to be able to do this, you need to prep in advance when you can, by previewing material and vetting it for your kids. Or at the very least, watch the material together, or discuss it together, and then you’ll be able to ‘pull the plug’ if necessary or enjoy the laughs together!

Problems with Boomer Humor

So what are some common problems with boomer humor that parents (and grandparents/great-grandparents) should be aware of, then?

1. Insults: Whether the humor is BY boomers or ABOUT boomers, boomer humor often falls under insults and being mean-spirited. And for kids particularly, you want to limit exposure to this behavior. We all know that kids will mimic what they hear and see, and you don’t really want to propagate bad behavior. Kids also have a hard time code-switching, or knowing when it’s okay to do ‘this’ or ‘that’ in one setting versus another, so again, teaching them that insults are okay can be problematic.
2. Division: Often boomer humor divides, rather than brings people together. Since it is so focused on one mindset, or lifestyle, it can end up being alienating or discriminating. And considering many find boomer humor topics controversial, it’s wise to think about it carefully.
3. Callousness: For some, the division turns to callousness instead of good-natured comedy. It makes light of real issues or concerns that can be quite serious and daunting, in some people’s opinions. I think we all can agree that the environment is important, for instance, and some might see boomer humor as acting like it’s not.

Benefits of Boomer Humor

What are the benefits of boomer humor?

There are actually quite a few benefits or positives regarding boomer humor, which is why, ultimately, I think it is good for kids.

Some of the good or positives with boomer humor are:

1. Relationships: The worlds of little kids and senior citizens can seem as vast as the universe. Humor can bring those worlds together, even if it’s shallow or surface level. With kids and elderly laughing together, they can start to see each other as ‘real’ people, and that’s the first step to getting over disagreements or differences. And who can complain about strengthening family bonds?
2. Educational: Listening to different viewpoints or experiences can be educational. It doesn’t mean you have to agree, but it’s helpful to learn different perspectives and ideas, if for nothing else, it can help you be stronger in your own beliefs. So boomer humor is a way to share differences and real, authentic history to educate.
3. Well-being: Laughter is indeed the best medicine, in many cases. Humor is critical to our health: mentally, emotionally, and physically, so ‘clean and vetted’ humor should be considered positive.

Special Note: My special needs son is one very important reason that I believe ‘boomer humor’ is good for kids. Due to his limitations, Ethan often doesn’t get jokes, especially the ones using irony, wit, or satire. We usually explain them to him and sometimes after that, he’ll get the punchline. But typically he just shrugs and goes about his business. However, after one eventful night of playing YouTube videos of stand-up from Jeff Allen and Brad Upton, two prominent ‘boomer comedians,’ we discovered Ethan’s kind of humor! Our son immediately was able to understand this type of comedy and boy, did he laugh! He laughed so much tears came to his eyes and he was literally slapping his leg. Then I was laughing similarly…at him and with him! So boomer humor certainly has its positives, and its particular audience!

The Boomer Humor Punchline

The punchline on whether boomer humor is good for kids is yes, it is…and no.

Yes, boomer humor is good because it teaches kids about older adults, and that’s quite a significant feat. Kids learn about experiences, concerns, ideas, and wants of others who just may be seen as boring and uninteresting otherwise. And boomer humor also allows boomers to reach out and connect with younger generations in a low-stakes way…another win for the pro side!

Granted there are some drawbacks to boomer humor, including division and plain ol cheesiness, which isn’t necessarily the epitome of comedy.

With supervision, parents should feel fine exposing their kids to boomer humor, and with good intentions, grandparents and great-grandparents should feel good about sharing their humor with the littles!

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Edgy humor deliberately pushes boundaries to be funny. It’s akin to shock humor and falls under the umbrella of dark comedy. Edgy humor typically relies on racist, sexist, or sexual jokes (i.e. political incorrectness). Also, edgy humor appeals to some because it evokes being cool or trendy.

As a mom of four (and grandma) as well as retired teacher, I can say unequivocally I’m not a fan of edgy humor, though that’s not the opinion of most kids, initially at least. Let’s look at what’s meant by edgy humor; edgy humor examples; its appeal and problems; and whether or not it’s ever appropriate for kids.

Edgy Humor Defined

So first, let’s make sure we have a clear understanding of the sub-genre of dark comedy called ‘edgy humor.’

Edgy humor is a type of dark comedy that uses humor to bully, make fun of, or be offensive to others. It often insults while elevating itself, or is considered edgy because it crosses the imaginary line of appropriateness. It can be shocking or sarcastic, but its twisted sense of humor is forefront.

Edgy Humor:

• Insults
• Offends
• Makes fun of
• Tries to be cool
• Focuses on trends
• Is often sexual in nature
• Pushes boundaries
• Makes people (audience) uncomfortable
• Disguises prejudice and bigotry
• Gets us out of our comfort zone

So if you tell a joke or hear a joke that causes any of these aforementioned consequences or reactions, then it might fall under ‘edgy humor‘.

And you may be thinking, as you read the list above, that that one’s not so bad…and that one…and so on, and it’s true. Not all ‘edgy humor’ is as bad as the other, but you must be cautious, especially if using it or sharing it with kids.

We’ll look at some examples next.

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Examples of Edgy Humor

As a teacher (and mom) I often put things in perspective by sharing examples. It’s highly effective with kids, as corroborated by the DoE, to help them better understand a difficult concept or just something unfamiliar. So let’s look at some examples of edgy humor here.

Example 1: I was raised an only child, which was real annoying for my brother. (This is edgy in that it makes light of child abuse.)

Example 2: My fish can break dance! But only for about 20 seconds, and just one time. (This is edgy because it implies killing a fish to watch it ‘dance’.)

Example 3: The older I get the more I think about all the people I lost along the way. I wasn’t a very good tour guide. (This is edgy in that you can deduce as a tour guide he is responsible for several people getting lost, and possibly even dying.)

Example 4: The husband was very confused. His wife left a note on the refrigerator that said ‘This isn’t working!’ but when he opened the fridge, it worked just fine. (This makes light of failed marriages.)

Example 5: Give a man a match, and he’ll be warm for a few hours. Set a man on fire, and he will be warm for the rest of his life. (The visual imagery of this joke is disturbing, making it edgy.)

Some questions for you: Are these jokes appropriate for the office or to tell a colleague? Are they suitable for telling grandma? Do they cause embarrassment? Are any of these jokes okay to tell kids? Are some worse than others?

As clearly evident, these examples are all ‘dark humor.’

But I chose these specific examples for a few reasons. First, I erred on selecting edgy jokes that aren’t overtly sexual, prejudiced, bigoted or hurtful specifically because I’m just not comfortable with doing that, even for this teachable reason. Instead I selected edgy jokes that are more about pushing boundaries or wry/sarcastic/droll humor.

But secondly, I chose these because they illustrate that not all edgy jokes are created (or delivered) equally. Some are darker than others, particularly the ones that use death and/or murder as humor.

But on a dark humor scale, these jokes aren’t tops on the list since none are about real people or about whole groups of people.

>>This is where caution is critical as parents/grandparents/teachers need to think carefully before using or sharing edgy humor with kids, even teens. Be very mindful and selective with edgy humor, if you choose to use it at all.

Why Some People Like Edgy Humor

As I stated at the start of this article, edgy humor is enjoying popularity at the moment. From mature games like Cards Against Humanity to those marketed for families like Exploding Kittens which is promoted as “A Russian Roulette Card Game, Easy Family-Friendly Party Games – for Adults, Teens & Kids”, edgy humor seems the norm.

So what is it exactly that makes edgy humor so popular?

We like edgy humor because it pushes the envelope, something we are naturally drawn to from toddler age on. It tends to incorporate current events, too, connecting us all. There’s also the thrill of taboo subjects and risky behavior associated that piques our interests, along with the cool factor.

Edgy humor isn’t humor your grandma finds funny; it isn’t what’s approved by your clergy. And it’s certainly not something you’re likely to hear come out of professionals. For these reasons, kids and young adults are prone to gravitate to it, as it aligns with their urge to rebel (Source: WebMD).

Edgy humor also *seemingly* offers a safe way to voice opinions that are contrary to mainstream or otherwise considered unsuitable. And I say seemingly because this is usually the reason people get into trouble with edgy humor- they use it as a tactic to voice racism, for instance, which isn’t appropriate under any circumstances.

Because edgy humor incorporates current events and lingo, it is commonly looked at as ‘cool’. It’s hip to be edgy in your clothes, hair styles, and attitude, so having an edgy humor is sometimes also looked at as ‘hip’ and cool. Another reason it’s popular.

Problems With Edgy Humor

But of course, edgy humor isn’t without debate. Even though edgy humor is popular, it’s also popularly derided and protested too. Why?

There are many problems with edgy humor. It’s often used to mask bigoted beliefs or as a way to bully or belittle specific people or groups. As well, edgy humor tends to be quite mature-themed and push the envelope too far. All of this makes edgy humor inappropriate in most cases for kids.

Many comedians have come under fire in recent years for their edgy humor going too far. For example, Louis C.K. had a bit that sympathized with child molesters and the late Joan Rivers included 9/11 jokes in her stand-up.

And even though the audience at the time laughed out loud, making them culpable and giving encouragement to the comics, it was Louis and Joan who suffered repercussions and dealt with the fallout. Rightfully so, in my book, because child molestation and jokes about 9/11 will never be funny!

Is edgy humor okay for kids?

So is edgy humor completely off limits with kids? Is this true for toddlers as well as teens?

Edgy humor can be used with kids with the thought and consideration. It’s vital to recognize that not all edgy humor is the same. While some is possibly okay for kids, there’s other edgy humor that’s certainly off limits. For this reason, adults should be cautious about exposing kids to edgy humor.

Possibly Okay for Kids (And I use the caveat ‘possibly’ because ultimately you know your kids, or should, and everything should be taken with that in mind.):

1. Edgy humor that lightly pokes fun at everyone in the home; this way no one is singled out. As well, it should not be about physical attributes like weight, acne, or nose.
2. Edgy humor about humanity or ‘being human’ and our faults.
3. Edgy humor that’s about ancient history, or history far removed.

Off Limits Edgy Humor for Kids:

1. Edgy humor that’s sexual.
2. Edgy humor that propagates prejudice and bigotry.
3. Edgy humor about recent historical tragedies.
4. Edgy humor that name-calls or puts down someone specifically known.
5. Edgy humor that belittles people for their physical characteristics, even if you don’t know them.
6. Edgy humor that is above a child’s mental/emotional capacity. This is especially true for younger kids who have difficulties with gray areas or blurring lines between reality and fantasy.
7. Edgy humor that creates a toxic environment- when any ‘edgy humor’ is overused, the environment can feel unsafe, tense, and stressful.

While neither of the lists above are all encompassing, they are intended to offer a guide for you.

Special Note: Be wary of using irony, satire, and sarcasm with children too- which can be a part of ‘edgy humor’-because they can easily be overdone and harm relationships. Even if children are laughing and smiling, it’s highly possible that this type of dark humor is actually unwelcome.

Edgy Humor Punchline

The punchline here about edgy humor is to use caution. Edgy humor, while it can be used to lighten uncomfortable situations and bring a fresh take on something, often resorts to overt sexualization; masking bigotry; or as an excuse to put others down to elevate oneself for comedic effect. Thus, parents, grandparents, and teachers should be careful about exposing kids to edgy humor.

Even with the best of intentions, it can go too far.

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Good news bad news jokes follow a positive, negative pattern. Usually the humor is dry, wry, or sarcastic, but typically the ‘bad’ punchline is light. It can take a dark, shocking turn easily though. The simple construction makes them a favorite of clergy, kids, or those needing an icebreaker.

Here I’ll take a closer look at the purpose of good news bad news jokes; who they’re most popularly used by and why; and some examples. As well, I’ll share what makes good news bad news jokes actually good for kids.

One way to build humor with your kids is to use it strategically through routines or regular activities. For instance, our Fun Jokes For Kids Coloring Book is a great tool for embedding humor through kid-friendly activity.

What Are Good News Bad News Jokes?

Jeff Mack wrote a popular children’s book titled Good News Bad News (available on Kindle or in hardback/paperback form on Amazon) which only uses these four words. So what are ‘good news, bad news’ jokes?

Good news bad news jokes usually start as if you’re giving the listener good news personal to them. Then it follows up with a related bad news, that negates any positive perception from the good news. It’s a common pattern simple to construct and that’s one reason for its popularity.

Let’s use the aforementioned book by Jeff Mack to consider this type of joke, as I found this tactic an effective teaching strategy.

Mack’s book has two characters, a rabbit and a mouse. Rabbit is the ‘good news’ character while Mouse presents the bad news. They’re going on a picnic and encounter both good and bad events that alternate as the story progresses.

• The first good news is the picnic; the first bad news is it starts to rain.
• Next for good news is that Rabbit has an umbrella to deal with the rain but then the umbrella blows away as Mouse is holding it (‘bad news’).
• And it goes on from there…you get the idea!

In Mack’s book there’s a definite arc of Rabbit representing positivity and Mouse representing the negative too.

Rabbit = Positive, bright-side person

Mouse = Negative, downer person

This joke style is easy to construct which makes it useful and popular. You just need to have a clear positive side and an equally clear negative side. However, both sides need to also have a clear tie or bond with each other, ‘an analogy’ of sorts.

As well, there’s another reason that this style is useful and popular. It has to do with how our human nature commonly reacts or responds to good news, as well as to receiving bad news. Good News, Bad News, And Affect (2012) by Douglas Maynard addresses this.

In his book, Maynard tackles this human relationship between both good and bad information and our emotions from a research perspective. It investigates and analyzes how we react to perceptions of good information (i.e. ‘good news) and bad.

Because this response is standard or normalized, it makes ‘good news bad news jokes’ work.

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Why Do Pastors Use Good News Bad News Jokes?

One group of people that seem to flock to good news bad news jokes is clergy. Why is this?

Pastors, priests, and other clergy like to use good news bad news jokes in their official talks or one to one discussions with members of their religious groups. One reason is the simple and clear nature of this style of humor; also good news bad news jokes are instant engagement tactics.

Clergy is defined as “a group ordained to perform pastoral or sacerdotal functions in a Christian church.”

Merriam-Webster

As a teacher, I appreciate the simple nature of good news bad news jokes because it is efficient for lesson planning. This is also why it’s appealing to clergy.

Examples of ‘Clergy’ include Protestant pastors and preachers, as well as Catholic priests and deacons.

Being ‘simple’ means it’s not difficult or particularly challenging to create original jokes like this, which is especially good for teachers, and clergy. You can tailor the joke for your group of students, or audience.

It also means they’re relatively quick to create- the patterned set up and ‘tie’ provide good guidance for developing the joke.

Last, the clear nature of the joke (what’s good and what’s bad) makes it easy for the listener to get, whether the audience is in a classroom or a church.

Good News Bad News Jokes As Pick-Up Lines

But clergy aren’t the only ones who like to use good news bad news jokes. They’re actually quite common as pick-up lines.

Good news bad news jokes are popular as pick-up lines because they’re easy to do. They’re easy because it’s not hard to remember; you can vary them up; they’re instantly recognizable because of the pattern; and good news bad news jokes are cheesily endearing and engaging.

What’s a pick-up line? A pick-up line is a ‘line’ or conversation that a person uses to start talking to a potential romantic partner. It’s what someone says to begin a conversation with a stranger with whom he or she is attracted to. The hope is to engage the other person through humor and initiate a mutually enjoyable interaction.

Good news bad news pick-up ‘jokes’ can be regular good news bad news jokes that you just simply use when trying to meet someone.

However, there are some different good news bad news jokes that are designed specifically as ‘pick-up lines’. Not surprisingly these can get racy, and aren’t suitable for kids’ ears (like all pick-up lines), but here’s an example that’s G rated:

• The good news is that your dreams have come true.
• The bad news is that your friend can’t say the same thing.

Yes, it’s cheesy. No, it’s not really funny. But hey, with the right smile and delivery, it might get you a conversation with someone you’re interested in…the rest of the conversation is up to you!

My suggestion though, if you’re into using ‘pick-up’ lines (and for some, it’s a safe tried and true tool), that is if you are just basically trying to initiate a conversation with someone you’d like to know better, to not resort to the cheesy pick-up line style of good news bad news jokes such as the example just previously given. Instead, use a good good news bad news joke to start up a conversation with someone. Do some pre-planning and have it in your back pocket, so to speak.

Good News Bad News Jokes Ice Breakers

There are some other reasons that good news bad news jokes are popular.

Good news bad news jokes are popular as icebreakers in new and/or uncomfortable situations. Because of this, teachers might use these at the start of school years to help their new students acclimate and often it’s part of staff meetings or team building activities.

Good News Bad News Jokes As Icebreakers Can:

• Provide levity to stressful moments
• Help others connect
• Initiate further discussion
• Help build trust
• Work as means to start introductions

Example for work situation:

• The good news you’re hired.
• The bad news you’re hired.

Another work-related one:

• The good news you have a paycheck.
• The bad news is it’s not much.

A final work/job good news bad news joke:

• The good news is that you have tomorrow off.
• The bad news is that you have every day off.

And here’s a good news bad news icebreaker for generic situations:

• The good news is that you just got a new skylight.
• The bad news…..is that you have it was put in by the falling tree.

Now a fun activity that combines ‘icebreakers’ and ‘good news bad news jokes’ is this: This is something I’d do with my older students, middle and high school. You start by writing ‘good news’ down on a piece of paper. Then someone write a related bad news. Then fold the paper so only the bad news is shown. And then pass it to the next person who’ll write a connected good news. And keep this going until everyone has written down something. Then open up the paper and take turns reading the ‘good news bad news’ out loud. I promise everyone will be laughing within minutes! This is best done in small groups of 5-10.

Why Do Kids Like Good News Bad News Jokes?

So now with all of this background on good news bad news jokes, let’s look at how it relates to parenting, grandparenting, or educating kids.

Good news bad news jokes are an appropriate joke style for kids, and quite popular with them as soon as they’re introduced. This is mainly due to the simplistic, clear pattern good news bad news jokes follow, which makes it easy for kids to grasp and duplicate, eventually.

As already mentioned, teachers like to incorporate good news bad news jokes as icebreakers and hooks for lessons.

• For icebreakers, it’s a way to build camaraderie and classroom community.
• For lesson hooks, it’s a way to build engagement and grab students’ attention right away.

Good news bad news jokes are really good to use with students, similar to Knock Knock jokes, for many of the same reasons, mainly because both follow a structure and recognizable pattern.

Parents are kids’ first teachers, and in the case of homeschooling moms like me, sometimes their only teachers. Though in actuality, kids ‘learn’ from lots of sources like TV, friends, extended family, even in cases of being homeschooled, so for this reason, it’s prudent to always be mindful of who has access to your kids.

But side note aside, good news bad news jokes are useful for parents and grandparents, too, not just teachers.

Parents (and grandparents) can use these jokes to teach their kids about patterns and structure. This is a good skill, and supports problem solving among other things.

Also, it’s good to incorporate good news bad news jokes because it’s a fun, easy way to teach perspective and point of view. As Catholics, we believe our attitude is more important than our circumstances, because for us, God is always there for us in our circumstance. He is in control. But our attitude can hinder that. So ‘good news bad news’ talk is a way to teach that very important life lesson.

But you might be wondering how can parents/grandparents do this? Well, you can be direct, just like traditional teachers are in their lesson plans and for those who struggle with humor, this might be the best option.

Ways to be direct:

• Read Mack’s Good News Bad News book as a bedtime story.
• Read other good news bad news joke books.
• Sit down and write out good news bad news jokes together, teaching the style/structure in the process.
• You can deliberately recite good news bad news jokes y as your day unfolds- once or twice a day (maybe start the morning with a GNBN joke or end the day with it). As you model this, your kids/grandkids will start mimicking you.

But you can also be indirect. You can throw them out as it makes sense. My advice is to start directly and as you and your kids/grandkids become more comfortable with the process, you can move to being organic and indirect.

Caution: Kids are very black and white, which is one main reason kids gravitate to good news bad news jokes and enjoy them. There’s a definite, clear ‘good’ part and likewise, a corresponding, ‘bad’ part that kids understand. But you have to make sure your good/bad parts are in fact, black and white and not shades of gray, otherwise kids won’t quite get the joke. Save grayer jokes for older kids, who have a better grasp of innuendo, multiple meanings, and satire.

Good News Bad News Jokes Punchline

The punchline to good news bad news jokes is that these jokes are often eye-rolling cheesy, but remain popular. This is because these jokes follow a strict structure; are simple; clear about good and bad; and can be tailored to your specific audience, which is actually the best kind of joke (the kind your audience ‘gets’).

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Non sequitur humor is suitable for kids but must be tailored to fit their individual understanding. Kids can learn non sequitur humor techniques and devices, but it requires advanced vocabulary and insight in order to grasp underlying meanings and relationships.

As a teacher, I’ve taught literary devices and figurative language to kids as young as 1st grade all the way to students in advanced high school English. It can be challenging to say the least, but non sequiturs are one of the most difficult.

I’m happy to share what I know about non sequitur humor; whether or not it’s appropriate for kids; and some relatable examples to help put it in perspective for you. Hopefully it will help you, and your kids, enjoy non sequiturs as much as I do!

What is non sequitur humor?

So before moving on, I want to explain what non sequitur humor is.

Non sequitur humor is humor that is absurd and illogical in context. This is part of what makes it funny. While non sequiturs can be simple since they technically make no sense and don’t follow logic, the really good ones are actually complex in how they make ‘connections’.

In other words, non sequitur humor is jokes that are out of place, or to be specific, the punchline is. However, non sequitur humor often gets laugh because it shows two great disconnects.

We’ll look at examples in a later section, but before that, know that non sequiturs are literally not logical. It’s a Latin word (phrase, I suppose) that specifically translates to ‘it does not follow’.

The etymology is (non) “not” + (third person singular present indicative of sequi) “to follow”.

Etymonline

This means the comedy comes from pairing two things, such as the ‘joke set up’ and the ‘punchline’ that don’t logically connect; the punchline doesn’t follow. It’s from out of left field. It’s funny because it is absurd, silly, nonsensical, and/or shocking.

Hint: In TV, non sequiturs often occur when someone isn’t listening. It’s a blatant illustration that while one character was pouring their heart out, for instance, the other was off in his or her own thoughts.

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Kids and Non Sequitur Humor

Is non sequitur humor appropriate for kids? Is it even possible for kids ‘to get it’?

Kids struggle with non sequitur humor in some ways, such as in making connections or drawing conclusions in context, but in other ways non sequitur humor is right up kids’ alley. Kids get non sequitur humor like it’s ‘word slapstick’; it’s just silly nonsense to them that they find funny.

Mr. Bean is an example of a popular slapstick comedian for kids. They enjoy his exaggerated facial expressions and silly antics, as well as the fact that he is consistently making a mess of things. But Mr. Bean’s comedy happens to be an example of non sequitur humor, too.

1. He’s regularly doing things that make no sense for the situation.
2. Mr. Bean responds illogically.
3. He’s off the wall comedy.

Kids enjoy silly, inane, and out of the ordinary happenings. They’ll laugh at random noises and events. The very thing that makes kids great audience for slapstick comedy is what makes them able to enjoy non sequitur humor.

You can be telling a story, and then all of a sudden make a goofy sound that has nothing to do with it, and then move on to finish your story and kids will laugh. They’ll get that non sequitur piece. It doesn’t have to make sense.

However, don’t try to get kids to explain non sequitur. They’ll just explain it’s unexpected and that’s what makes it funny to them. And really that’s basically why adults like non sequiturs, too.

Non Sequitur Family Story: When our son Ronin was learning the alphabet, he would sing it. One day he figured out that randomly saying ‘Cookie Monster’ got us to laugh. Thus, he started inserting ‘Cookie Monster’ into all of his conversations. To be honest, the humor was lost on us after 2-3 times as it lost its randomness, but Ronin always thought it was funny!

Is non sequitur humor smart?

Is non sequitur humor smart or dumb? As a teacher, I found that teaching non sequiturs is both. Well, ‘not dumb’ per se, but I discovered my most intelligent kids could struggle with it or ‘get the relationship’ just like my English language learners, special needs students, and young first graders could/not.

Non sequitur humor is both smart and dumb. Goofy, illogical punchlines don’t require much forethought or insight. However, some non sequiturs rely on subtle relationships or make complex connections that are quite astute. Because of this, it’s varied who gets or not gets non sequitur humor.

• Not So Smart Non Sequitur: He failed his math test. He must be a bad writer.
• Smart Non Sequitur: A Big and Tall store has a sign that says ‘ring for service’ between one wide door and one tall door.

As a teacher, I can help students understand non sequiturs and move from not-so-smart ones to ‘smart’ non sequiturs by discussing and analyzing different examples. The analysis is crucial in modeling with children how to figure out non sequiturs, and what makes them funny.

Non Sequitur Humor Examples

Now we’re ready to look at examples of non sequiturs.

• SNL’s Weekend Update with Norm MacDonald: This was known for its frequent non sequiturs. In one episode he frequently blamed everything on Frank Stallone. One reason this is funny is because Stallone had absolutely no connection to any of the issues, but another, is that ‘it’s Frank Stallone’, someone no one really heard of!

• The Office: This show is full of non sequiturs from boss Michael Scott to ‘Assistant to the Regional Manager’ Dwight to slacker but good-natured Jim. Michael is frequently drawing wrong conclusions to situations. For instance, because he’s boss he credits himself as a benefactor to his employees, as the person who ‘gives’ them their check. Both Dwight and Jim draw insane, absurd logical fallacies as well.

• Clueless: Alicia Silverstone’s Emma, known as Cher, consistently draws wrong conclusions, or makes relationships and connections that are illogical and/or nonsensical. One of the most memorable examples of non sequiturs in Clueless is from her oral report/speech in front of her class.

• Scrubs: JD from TV’s Scrubs is frequently saying non sequiturs, or things that don’t follow, and offer comedic relief due to his constant fantasizing.

Other Non Sequitur Examples:

• You watch a documentary about shark attacks and then think you can’t swim in your pool.
• The car is out of gas so you can’t do your homework.
• Someone asks you how’s the weather and you respond, ‘chocolate.’
• You tell your mom that your stomach hurts and she replies, ‘dinner’s not ready yet.’

A Final Non Sequitur Family Story: Blaming my son Ethan for everything that goes wrong. Let me explain before you label me worst mother of the year! Whether I burn the cookies, my husband oversleeps, or Ronin loses his keys, we say ‘Ethan did it!’ and Ethan always responds, ‘denied!’. Now we know Ethan is not to blame and he knows this too, because the things we ‘blame’ him for has nothing at all to do with him. This is what makes it a non sequitur…and funny.

Non Sequitur Humor Punchline

So what’s the non sequitur humor punchline? It’s this: non sequiturs are illogical, goofy, out of the ordinary responses, which can be used to illicit comic relief.

Even young kids can actually enjoy non sequitur humor because they don’t necessarily have to get the joke. Because non sequiturs don’t follow logic and are surprising/shocking/oddball responses or random insertions, kids just laugh due to the absurdity rather than from underlying connections or hidden meanings.

However, more complex non sequiturs can appeal to mature audiences, in age or intelligence. And figuring them out can be like solving advanced puzzles.

Some non sequiturs can be quite sophisticated, requiring insight or astute thinking. But overall kids like non sequiturs because it’s like word slapstick!

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A lighthearted person is consistently carefree, cheerful, and relaxed. Some might say a lighthearted person is naïve or simple, but it’s really about people going with the flow and not letting obstacles get them down. Lightheartedness is natural for some, but parents can teach lighthearted habits.

I’m not naturally a lighthearted person, and I still struggle with overthinking things, perfectionism, and worry. But that being said, I am getting better at letting things go; taking time to relax; and remaining hopeful.

Let me share all I’ve learned from my days as a teacher, experiences as a mom, and personal research about what it means to be lighthearted and then how that relates to kids.

What is meant by lighthearted?

Let’s first consider what’s meant by the word, lighthearted, because this word can easily be misconstrued.

Lighthearted is a compound word, made up of the pairing of two words: light and heart, with the past tense -ed. Light means ‘having little weight’ and hearted means ‘big emotion or feeling’. When you take the compound word as a whole, lighthearted means untroubled and cheerful.

As a teacher, a common activity I’d assign for kids learning new words is to define the words. Then, next, I’d have them look up synonyms and antonyms for the unfamiliar word they were learning. Below I’ve created a table that gives the synonyms and antonyms for ‘lighthearted’ in the same way.

Next, I’d have students apply the word in several role playing exercises, and for those who preferred working independently, I’d have them use the word in sentences, in different contexts. Here’s an example of this for the word, lighthearted.

Context Sentences for Lighthearted:

1. The boy’s lighthearted attitude during his teacher conference about his bad behavior was a cause for alarm. (Lighthearted = unconcerned)
2. SpongeBob SquarePants is lighthearted as he rarely gets down or discouraged. (Lighthearted = optimistic)
3. Emma, by Jane Austen, is a lighthearted novel, full of youthful hubris and romantic misunderstandings. (Lighthearted = cheerful, happy-go-lucky)

*Other articles similar to this one about personality types and character related to humor are What To Know About A Smiley Person and Subtle Humor: How A Subtle Person Can Use Humor.

Is lighthearted the same as kind?

When describing a new word like lighthearted, kids might ask you is it like this or that. One common question about lighthearted, is whether or not it means the same as kind.

Being lighthearted is not exactly the same as being kind. Kind is synonymous with empathetic and considerate. These aren’t the same as lighthearted. Lightheartedness is more about one’s self and one’s outlook, whereas being kind is about focusing on others and putting them first.

A lighthearted person can also be kind, but being lighthearted doesn’t automatically mean you’re also kind.

Lighthearted Vs. Happy

So another question connecting words to lighthearted is whether or not being lighthearted is the same as happy.

Lighthearted people are commonly happy and cheerful by definition of the word, lighthearted. A lighthearted person is relaxed, not anxious or worried, easygoing, and optimistic, all synonyms for lighthearted. These traits would constitute a person being considered ‘happy’.

Synonyms for Lighthearted: blithe, carefree, cheerful, debonair, gay, happy-go-lucky, insouciant, lightsome, optimistic, unconcerned

Synonyms for Happy: blissful, blithe, cheery, delighted, glad, joyful, optimistic, satisfied

Words in common are blithe, cheery/cheerful, and optimistic. But even beyond that, it’s clear that there is a connection between happy and lighthearted, so much so that you can draw a synonymous conclusion.

Lighthearted Vs. Silly

Now what about lighthearted and silly? Are those the same thing?

A lighthearted person may act silly more than a person who isn’t lighthearted. This is because lighthearted people are relaxed, easygoing, and unconcerned about what others think of them. These traits make it easy to act silly without embarrassment, but a silly person isn’t exactly lighthearted.

Silly people can be dumb; frivolous; comedic; and scatterbrained. None of these traits are the same as lighthearted.

Remember a lighthearted person is relaxed, not worried, and goes with the flow. This doesn’t equate being silly.

Nevertheless, a lighthearted person can be silly if they want, but that’s outside of being a lighthearted person.

How can a person be lighthearted?

Now that we have a good grasp of what is meant by lighthearted and being a ‘lighthearted person’, let’s look into how we can be lighthearted, if that’s not natural for us.

A person can learn to be lighthearted on purpose if it’s not typical for them. By letting things go; relaxing more; and maintaining a positive attitude, one can adopt a lighthearted personality. This means parents can support children in learning to be lighthearted.

Tips for Being Lighthearted:

• Learn relaxation techniques to reduce anxiety.
• Cultivate positive relationships. Who we hang around is very influential on our moods.
• Purposefully look on the bright side. For example, when a problem occurs, think about how you can learn from it, making it a positive situation too.
• Get plenty of exercise.
• Eat healthily.
• Have good routines, including getting enough rest.
• Surround yourself with positive entertainment/media by reading uplifting books, listening to hopeful music, and watching happy/funny films.
• Enjoy hobbies, or take up a new hobby. The more fun activities you do, the better your time is spent.

Is it okay for kids to be lighthearted?

So does this mean that being lighthearted is a positive trait, and therefore that it’s something we should desire for our children?

It’s perfectly okay for kids to be lighthearted in that they’re relaxed, easygoing, and cheerful. However, we should help our kids be well-rounded, so teaching them about a strong work ethic, being considerate of others, and setting achievable goals is also desirable.

Positive Actions of Lighthearted Kids:

• Learning a language (they’re unconcerned about mistakes and mispronunciations)
• Not holding grudges (they’re able to let things go)
• Relaxed (lack anxiety)
• In good moods regularly so they tend to have a lot of friends (cheery disposition)

Negative Actions of Lighthearted Kids:

• Don’t meet expectations (unconcerned about deadlines)
• Lack hobbies (prefer not getting out of comfort zone)
• Tend to not take things seriously, even if they’re serious situations (too easygoing)
• May be considered rude (lack of concern and seriousness can be misconstrued or construed as snarky or antagonistic)

So while it’s not bad for kids to be lighthearted, and I’d go as far as saying it’s beneficial for them to be lighthearted, parents and teachers need to use caution as they teach lighthearted traits to kids so that there’s a good balance.

Pros and Cons of Being Lighthearted Adults

Like with kids, there are pros and cons for adults in being lighthearted to keep in mind. Overall I prefer a lighthearted spirit in myself, and those that I love, and think it’s a good way of being for most anyone. But that being said, it can be taken too far.

It’s good for adults to be lighthearted by being positive, cheerful, happy-go-lucky, care-free, and easygoing. However, it’s not okay to be so unconcerned that you don’t meet deadlines or follow through. For this reason, adults need to be thoughtful as they try to live a lighthearted life.

Pro: Lighthearted people will take risks by going after promotions; meeting new people; and not letting obstacles stand in their way. These are all good, healthy things that can provide them, and their family, a successful life.

Con: Lighthearted people may be apathetic and accept mediocrity as a form of being easygoing and unconcerned about moving up or achieving goals. It may result in poverty, addiction, and slothfulness.

Famous Lighthearted People, Characters, and Films

It’s helpful to have examples of lightheartedness, especially for children. This makes the concept concrete and comprehensible. For this reason, I’ve listed some lighthearted family movies; lighthearted celebrities and what makes them that way; and lighthearted characters.

Lighthearted Family Movies

• The Parent Trap-The 1961 original starred Hayley Mills, but a more recent, popular version had Lindsay Lohan and Dennis Quaid (as the dad). This is a feel-good movie, and that’s the context for ‘lighthearted’ here.
• Father of the Bride– This movie also has an original (with Elizabeth Taylor in 1950) and a 3-volume remake with Kimberly Paisley and Steve Martin. The context for ‘lighthearted’ is more about how everything is resolved in the end, and its emphasis on family values and strong ties between a daughter and her dad, not to mention the whole plot centers around a wedding!
• The Lego Movie– This movie is cheerful and includes silly dialogue coming from toy blocks, and that’s the definition of lighthearted connected here.
• The Princess Bride-Like The Lego Movie, this movie has some silliness to it, but also a warmth and genuineness about it, and it’s pretty clear to the audience that everything will be just fine- our lighthearted meanings attached to this film.

Lighthearted Celebrities

• Actor Keanu Reeves is considered one of the nicest celebrities alive today. He tops almost every list for humble, kind, and happy-go-lucky, and that’s why he’s also ‘lighthearted.’
• TV Personality Mr. (Fred) Rogers is also considered ‘the nice guy’ and a person with a heart of gold, which is how he is included here for lighthearted.
• Singer Taylor Swift sings hopeful songs, does random acts of kindness, and stays down to Earth for a super-rich and popular singer, making her also ‘lighthearted.’
• Football Player Gale Sayers who authored a book titled, I Am Third, which aptly explains his demeanor (available on Amazon).

Lighthearted Animated Characters

• SpongeBob SquarePants is commonly tops or near the top of all sunny, happy-go-lucky, care-free animated characters in cartoons today. This is why he’s known as lighthearted, too.
• Ned Flanders (from The Simpsons), like SpongeBob, tops most lists for sunny disposition. Ned always looks on the bright side and is consistently optimistic, aka ‘lighthearted.’ In addition, Ned also is a devout Christian, giving him another reason for being ‘light of heart.’
• Dora the Explorer is an optimistic, cheerful cartoon character. Even when faced with challenges, she doesn’t get down; she keeps going and is never anxious. This makes Dora known for being lighthearted.
• Winnie the Pooh is the consummate worry-free character. He is regularly cheerful and sunny, though not excitable and energetic. He’s a mellow bear, which is also why Winnie the Pooh is considered lighthearted.

The Punchline for being a Lighthearted Person

So there you have it, just about everything you need to know about a lighthearted person. In this article, we addressed:

• What it means to be lighthearted (Synonyms: easygoing; cheerful; carefree; happy-go-lucky)
• How you can be a lighthearted person (A positive attitude goes a long way)
• Whether it’s okay for kids to be lighthearted (yes, parents can teach kids lighthearted habits)
• Pros and Cons of being lighthearted adults (very similar to the positives and negatives for kids)
• And many concrete examples of lighthearted (Personally my favorite is The Princess Bride!)

Being lighthearted can be great for your kid! It can help him or her achieve their dreams while at the same time maintain a healthy, positive attitude. However, balance is key in just about everything, including being lighthearted!

For further reading on related topics, I recommend these articles next:

• Do animals smile? Inquiring Kids Want to Know
• What To Know About A Smiley Person
• Subtle Humor: How A Subtle Person Can Use Humor

Universal humor is humor that’s accessible to all, breaking language; culture; age; and other barriers. All parents and teachers benefit from it because once its aspects are fully grasped, it can be applied in any situation, wherever you are. This is particularly useful when dealing with kids.

I’m happy to share what I’ve learned about humor from my years as a mom and teacher, as well as from my own research into humor types, including universal humor.

Keep reading to learn more about this, including cultural differences pertaining to humor; how Hollywood uses universal humor; and some tips and suggestions for humor-challenged parents and teachers like me.

One way to build humor with your kids is to use it strategically through routines or regular activities. For instance, our Fun Jokes For Kids Coloring Book is a great tool for embedding humor through kid-friendly activity.

What is meant by universal humor?

Let’s first talk about what is meant by the idea or concept of universal humor. In some ways, it’s actually debatable that universal humor exists, but I’ll share what I think given my unique, expert background, as well as some research that has provided evidence for universal humor.

Universal humor is humor that’s funny to just about everyone, regardless of background, culture, age, and so on. Many think it’s a myth, saying humor can’t cross boundaries, especially global ones. However, there are features of humor that are universal, even though boundaries make it tricky.

Some people thing that humor can’t be universal because of cultural differences, for example. We’ll look at that more in depth in the next section. Others think that humor can’t be universal because of age. This is what’s behind the Boomer vs. Millennial memes. Then, some say humor can’t be universal because it’s too connected to our personalities. However, I think that’s actually an argument for the universality of humor.

Some Universal Features of Humor:

• Every human is born with the ability to laugh. Babies have been noted to laugh at 17 days old, while even deaf and blind people laugh.
• Even animals have been known to laugh, such as monkeys and rats.
• Laughter and humor are parts of all cultures.
• Laughter and thus humor cross social and economic lines. This means you can find humor, regardless of being rich or poor, for instance, you just might have a different sense of humor.
• Laughter and humor are signs of contentedness or excitability (and of course, other emotions, too).
• Laughter from a good sense of humor benefits our health, no matter who we are.
• A good sense of humor is valued in almost all societies (it’s just that the definition of what IS a good sense of humor might vary).

And I’ll share more about how parents and teachers specifically can benefit from universal humor with kids in a later section, too. So keep reading!

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• Comedy And Humor Are Subjective (And That Matters)
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Cultural Differences and Humor

One of the biggest arguments against universal humor is cultural differences. And no one can argue that there are differences from culture to culture, but likewise, we all have things in common too. And that’s where I say universal humor blurs the lines.

Cultural differences affect our perceptions of humor. For instance, Americans are prone to loud, overt humor while Brits are known for wry, deadpan humor. Even so, it’s not strictly one way or the other. Culture certainly provides context for humor, but you’ll find universal features everywhere.

“Humor is a universal phenomenon but is also culturally tinted.“

Tonglin Jiang, Hao Li, and Yubo Hou

Some ‘Facts’ About Cultural Humor (2009):

• If you laugh when a Finnish person enters the room, they’re less likely to be concerned; whereas a Thai person’s affective filter is raised.
• Americans rate less humble when it comes to humor. When we’re laughed at, we get over the quickest.
• Indonesians fear doing something that makes them look foolish, silly, or they consider embarrassing more than any other.
• The Japanese rate the highest for difficulty getting over being laughed at.

Gelotophobia: the fear of being laughed at

But despite these differences, one thing is clearly universal from this study, and the ISHS (International Society for Humor Studies): no one likes being make fun of or laughed at. It affects us to different degrees, but it’s something we all have in common about humor.

Western Humor Vs. Eastern Humor

What about the differences in western and eastern humor, specifically? I’ve already provided some study results in the previous section, but we’ll dive a bit deeper now.

Though the four types of humor are universal, there are distinct cultural aspects in western and eastern humor. Westerners view humor as a positive trait; and useful for amusement and as a coping device, while eastern cultures prefer being serious over humorous, and feel it isn’t socially desirable.

According to LaughLab, established in 2001 with the pairing of psychologist Richard Wiseman and the British Science Association for scientific research on jokes, there are some distinguishing characteristics for humor when it comes to various cultures. Below I’ve listed the division between western and eastern humor.

But of course, all of this is a generalization, but still based on years of sincere, dedicated research.

Special Note: Although there’s some very clear differences in how humor is viewed in western and eastern cultures, sometimes humor is shared too. This is clear when we think of the many comedies, both animated and live-action that cross borders in appeal, being just as popular in the US as Germany and China. And while Marvel movies like Spiderman: No Way Home and Avengers: Endgame is full of adventure and action, they’re also well known for their comedic timing and funny dialogue, enjoyed universally.

Different Types of Humor and Universal Humor

Let’s now see how universal humor fits in with the documented four types of humor.

There are four types of humor, as delineated by researcher/psychologist Rod Martin and his colleagues. They are affiliative humor; aggressive humor; self-enhancing humor; and lastly, self-defeating humor. And guess what? Further research corroborates these types are universal!

“The four types of humor have been found to be applicable in different countries…However, people from different cultural backgrounds may use them in different ways.”

Frontiers in Psychology, 29 January 2019

For example, while all forms of humor are evident in various cultures studied across the world, some cultures used one form over the other more often.

• Affiliative humor is more prevalent in socially cohesive cultures.
• Aggressive humor is increased in cultures that our more competitive in their social and economic communities.
• The concept of ‘saving face’ is considered incredibly important in Chinese culture, thus, they are rated as more likely to use self-enhancing humor to cover up individual mistakes.  
• Humor is context connected in many cases and linguistically dependent. This means that the old adage ‘Lost in translation’ is true for some jokes and comedic stories.

How can parents and teachers use universal humor tactics?

Now what does this all mean, particularly for us parents and teachers who are humor-challenged? Well, several things in fact.

Parents and teachers can benefit from universal humor, once they get what’s universal about it. Like all good teachers think, the skill of humor can, after all, be taught/learned like anything else. So once teachers and parents figure out universal humor, they can apply it to enhance their own humor standing.

To reiterate what’s been said (i.e. ‘what we know about universal humor’): All four types of humor exist cross-culturally. However, there are certain ones that are better suited for use with children, specifically, affiliative and self-enhancing humor. It’s best to avoid aggressive humor with kids, and self-defeating humor should be cautiously utilized.

With that, we can move forward to more specific, concrete humor tactics.

One very useful style of humor across cultures is slapstick. This humor is easier to comprehend and recognize. It limits language and is overt and simplified in most cases. It’s why it’s the favorite of little kids everywhere!

Some Slapstick Comedians/Comedies Popular All Around the World ^{_{(all links to Amazon)}}:

• Laurel and Hardy – Perhaps set the tone for slapstick with their bumbling comedy beginning in the 1920s causing kids to still laugh today
• Rowan Atkinson of Mr. Bean fame, which you can watch in live-action or animation versionsl
• Jim Carrey of Ace Ventura fame, who also famously played the Grinch
• Jackie Chan of many karate movies, including the animated Jackie Chan Adventures
• Jack Black of Kung Fu Panda franchise, plus Goosebumps

On a personal note, I’ve never been as funny as my husband, but I’ve learned from him some universal features of humor. I promise it works! And I know this from experience of being married to my husband for longer than either of us can usually remember! No matter where he is, little kids gravitate to him, even the shyest ones!

My husband’s Universal Humor Tips: That work with all kids, everywhere!

• Act like a clown.
• Make everything a game.
• Smile big. In fact, exaggerate all facial expressions.
• Look shocked and big-eyed.
• Stick out your tongue!
• Smack your head.
• Be silly.
• Poke, when applicable.
• Make goofy sounds.
• Use gibberish.
• Say nonsensical things. Like you’re 500 years old; or they are!
• Argue with them about inarguable things. Say ‘no, nope, nuh uh.’

The key here is to be overt; obvious; and clearly humorous. That’s what makes it universal. Silliness works everywhere. And what I realized is, he’s not afraid of looking goofy or being silly. You can’t get embarrassed. Kids will sense if you are uncomfortable…then it’s not funny; it’s just weird.

Important Concern? When incorporating universal tactics as described above with kids, you might worry that it will impede your authority. I had this legitimate concern, too. However, I can attest that no one has more proven authority with kids than my husband, and yet he’s able to have 2-12 year olds rolling on the floor with laughter in no time at all! As a karate teacher with decades of practical experience, he’s commanded the most rambunctious classrooms with ease. He’s wrangled 30 two and three-year-olds without a beat, having them eating out of his hands, and also listening attentively and following all directions!

Universal Humor Punchline

So the punchline about universal humor is this: Humor is universal. Research has proven this. But in all practical sense, parents and teachers can utilize slapstick humor and it pretty much works universally, wherever you are.

The reason slapstick is universal is that it’s simple; overt; and clearly humorous so there’s little room for misunderstandings or misconceptions. Even the shyest, most introverted kids everywhere will smile if you make a silly face at them. Go ahead and try it. I dare ya!

To read more from Fun Jokes about humor, I recommend these next:

• The Lowest Form Of Humor- Puns, Sarcasm, Or Shock (Ranked)
• Comedy And Humor Are Subjective (And That Matters)
• All About Droll Humor and Being A Droll Person (Explained)

Bad humor is prevalent in children’s entertainment, only it’s not always obvious or intentional. From humor that’s too mature or over kids’ heads to humor that’s just not funny or quality material, parents and teachers have to be vigilant against bad humor in kids’ movies, TV shows, and cartoons.

Being a mom of four, now an ‘Oma’ too, as well as having a teacher background, I’ve become quite the expert in vetting kid entertainment. And I’ve learned over the years that just because it looks ‘made for kids’ doesn’t mean it’s good for them.

Read on as I explain the ins and outs of bad humor as it relates to children’s movies and TV shows, as well as provide some tips and suggestions to help you navigate the wide-range of what’s targeting our most precious charges.

What is meant by bad humor?

Let’s first address what’s actually meant by bad humor. What’s bad about it?

Bad humor often means humor that’s inappropriate, crude, rude, sexual, or very mature-themed. It’s akin to dark or black comedy. Then again, bad humor can mean humor that’s just not funny. It also can describe someone’s grumpy mood. Context is needed to get the pertinent or intended meaning.

Bad Humor Refers to Inappropriate, i.e. ‘Bad’, Themes

The meaning of bad humor as inappropriate or mature themed is definitely the kind of humor parents and teachers need to watch for. Dark humor, aka ‘bad humor, has infiltrated so much of children’s entertainment that it’s hardly noticed except in the extreme. Even then, adults often overlook it thinking that kids won’t understand it so then it’s not anything to worry about.

Types of bad humor are jokes that have sexual references; racism/sexism/ageism; insults or bullying; as well as jokes that make light of historical tragedies, mental illness, and health or social problems.

We’ll look at some examples of this meaning of bad humor in a later section.

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Bad Humor Means Something is Not Funny

It’s possible to use the phrase ‘bad humor’ to refer to comedy that is cheesy, corny, or just not funny. It’s referencing bad jokes in that case. Normally, we’ll simply say ‘that’s not funny’ to clearly give our opinion about comedy we don’t find humorous, but ‘that’s bad humor’ can work for this situation.

An example of this kind of humor are ‘dad jokes’ and all the jokes by the hosts of America’s Funniest Home Videos, with the late Bob Saget taking top prize.

Bad Humor Can Mean Someone’s Grumpy Mood

And lastly, bad humor can actually refer to someone’s mood. Saying someone is in a bad humor is meaning he or she is in a bad, surly, grumpy mood. It’s not a common saying today, but just about anyone with a native command of English will understand what you mean by saying this. They may also look at you like you’re a boomer, too!

Example Sentence 1= Bobby was in a bad humor because he has to go to the dentist.

Example Sentence 2= Dad has a bad humor since the bathroom flooded.

Examples of Bad Humor Made for Kids

So let’s now look at some examples of ‘bad humor’ made especially for kids. For this, I’m focusing on bad humor that is dark. This means it’s inappropriate; too mature; and/or uses comedy over kids’ heads.

• Example 1 is from What’s New, Scooby Doo? (available at Amazon Prime). In season 2 episode 14, there’s a very obvious overture from Daphne’s flirtatious cousin to Fred. Kids under 10 won’t get it, probably, but most others certainly will. Though some might say it’s unintentional, it’s quite clear when the next scene cuts to a visibly upset and annoyed Daphne (after all, her cousin is flirting, i.e. propositioning, her boyfriend in front of her and ‘the gang’.) Another part of the overall humor is how the double meaning is completely lost on oblivious Fred.

• Example 2 is from The Power Puff Girls (linked to Amazon), season 4 episode 7. In this episode, the Power Puff girls explain to a new friend that the professor created them in his lab by accident. The professor mumbles embarrassingly and then the little girl says, ‘it’s okay, I was an accident too.’ Now most little ones will not really get this ‘joke’ but they will be confused about being called ‘an accident.’ Be prepared for some follow-up questions!

• Example 3 is from Cartoon Network’s Dexter’s Laboratory (you can view for yourself on Amazon Prime). Whether it’s an episode about ‘dad’s trophy’ where one scene shows it written on the backside of a female neighbor or an episode titled, ‘Blonde Leading the Blonde/Comic Stripper’, you can say that this cartoon series targeted to kids is rife with sexual innuendo and overtures, embedded and some not-so-much embedded.

Good Humor Vs. Bad Humor

So now that we’ve considered some examples of bad, inappropriate humor for kids, let’s compare good humor versus bad humor in the general sense.

Good humor and bad humor are perfect opposites. Good humor refers to humor that’s innocent and/or appropriate, as well as applicably funny. It can also refer to a person’s contented or happy mood. Bad humor can mean inappropriate humor; not funny; or someone’s grumpy mood.

Remember good humor is humor that’s not just funny, but it’s humor that is meaningful to its audience. A comedian can be funny but if his jokes aren’t applicable or tailored to his audience, then the jokes fall flat and wouldn’t be considered ‘good humor’ in this case.

Likewise, bad humor is humor that doesn’t reach its audience properly.

If I were explaining good and bad humor dispositions to my students or children, I’d use characters that are well-known for this, that they are familiar with, in order to get my point across clearly. Here are some examples of this.

Good Humor Characters: SpongeBob SquarePants; Dory; and Olaf from Frozen

Bad Humor Characters: Squidward; Oscar the Grouch; and Scar from Lion King

Combatting Bad Humor for Kids

What can parents and teachers do to navigate the plethora of kids’ entertainment in order to avoid dark and bad humor?

The best way to combat bad humor targeting kids is for parents and teachers to vet material firsthand. Resources are useful, but not always reliable. Preview if possible, but if not, then watch with them to carefully monitor what’s shown. If bad humor pops up, explain it. Communication is key.

Tips for Vetting Children’s Entertainment:

• Use Parent’s Guides on IMDB. This provides details about mature themes and instances in movies.
• Read reviews. Often reviewers and critics will share information that can illuminate any dark humor in shows. Or let you know if ‘bad humor’ means cheesy, not-so-funny jokes that aren’t worth your kids and students’ time.
• Common Sense Media is another online resource to provide insights about entertainment as it relates to appropriateness for kids.
• Watch it yourself. Or talk to others you trust who’ve watched.
• Watch with your children and of course, if you’re using material in a classroom, you should pay attention to what you show your students. Be sure to discuss any dark humor tactics and devices used and point out problems.

What is a bad sense of humor?

Now that we have looked at the meaning behind bad humor, what’s meant by someone having a bad sense of humor?

In general saying someone has a bad sense of humor usually means that they aren’t funny or have problems understanding humor. It also might mean that they are overly sensitive and easily take offense at jokes. Not as common, it could also mean a person prefers dark humor.

Since having a good sense of humor is high on the traits lists for one’s self and significant other, it’s something that has garnered a lot of research. Here are a just a few things we’ve learned from those years of study.

• Humor is used in positive psychology therapy.
• Humor boosts our health. ‘Laughter is the best medicine’ in some cases.
• A good sense of humor makes us more attractive to others.
• Humor is a common leadership trait.
• Humor is considered a life skill.

So with all of the evidence backing the need for a good sense of humor, it’s equally evident just how having a bad sense of humor can be detrimental to our overall well-being and quality of life.

One way to build humor with your kids is to use it strategically through routines or regular activities. For instance, our Fun Jokes For Kids Coloring Book is a great tool for embedding humor through kid-friendly activity.

Bad Sense of Humor Vs. No Sense of Humor

So does this mean a bad sense of humor is the same as having no sense of humor (or a blank sense of humor)?

A bad sense of humor can be synonymous with having a blank sense of humor or ‘no sense of humor’ at all. This definition for bad sense of humor refers to a person void of personality; mundane; serious-minded; monotoned; and rarely ever laughing. It’s not referring to inappropriate comedic behavior.

• You might say a person has a bad sense of humor or a blank sense of humor when they don’t laugh at jokes most people get.
• You might say someone has a bad sense of humor or a blank sense of humor if they often have blank expressions, rarely smile or laugh, and aren’t excitable.
• You would not refer to someone making an inappropriate, crude joke as having a blank sense of humor, but you could say they have a bad sense of humor.
• If someone cracks a joke during Mass or church service, you wouldn’t say he has a blank sense of humor but you might say he has a bad sense of humor (since it’s a joke at an inappropriate time).
• A person who tells shocking jokes or sarcastic humor could be said to have a bad sense of humor in that it’s a dark humor, not a blank sense of humor.
• If a woman never gets a joke unless someone explains the punchline to her, you could say she has a blank or bad sense of humor.

Combatting a Bad Sense of Humor

Parents and teachers can help students in either case, whether it’s a bad sense of humor as in appropriateness or a bad sense of humor as in a blank personality. However, a child with a blank personality might be more difficult to ‘change’ and not necessarily should change, except in situations where it might be impeding his or her quality of life.

For example, introverts might be considered having a blank personality. Yet being introverted is not bad, though adults should help introverted children with communication and social skills where needed so that they can have a fulfilled, self-sufficient life as adults.

Having a bad sense of humor as it relates to appropriateness should be changed.

Tips for Parents/Teachers of Kids With a Bad Sense of Humor:

• Explain the joke to them. Yes, this hinders the ‘funny’ but it’s a way to make the connections more concrete so that kids can ‘see’ the comedic reasoning.
• You can teach humor, so be instructional and intentional. This is more than explaining jokes not gotten; rather this means being proactive and purposefully bringing humor to the forefront.
• Watch comedies together. Be sure to vet entertainment for appropriateness too. YouTube clips are useful too, because you don’t have to watch all of something to enjoy the best, humorous lines and scenes.
• Have fun. Be playful and silly. This is another indirect way of teaching ‘good humor.’
• Be a good humor role model too. Don’t model bad humor to your kids like sarcasm or ‘bullying’ tactics to be funny.

Are shock humor and dark comedy the same as bad humor?

Now that we’ve looked at various meanings and intentions pertaining to bad humor, let’s briefly address how it relates to shock comedy and dark humor.

Bad humor can indicate dark comedy, and shock humor fits into that category. Shock humor attempts to make someone laugh using shocking tactics like overt sexual references and language, or jokes about taboo subjects. Since this is typically inappropriate, it can also be called bad humor.

Examples of bad, dark, and shocking humor: These jokes are inappropriate, rude, and will likely offend.

• A boy cracks a joke about a girl’s walk.
• A person makes fun of how someone with a speech impediment talks.
• A comedian does a stand-up show with humor about the holocaust.

Examples of bad humor that’s not dark or shocking: These jokes are silly and not really funny, but don’t cause offense.

• I frequently make a joke about serving bananas for dessert knowing my sons don’t like bananas.
• My husband cracks a joke about me walking like a snail.
• Kids tell Knock Knock jokes that hardly make sense.
• Puns

Another Home Alone 2 Scene: Think about the hotel room scene where Kevin plays the Filthy Angels 2 tape in sync with the hotel manager and other hotel staff’s visit. It contains numerous sexual references; mature double speak; violence; kid and adult role reversals; manipulation; and extreme teasing. It’s not to say the kids won’t find this scene hilarious. On the contrary, most will laugh out loud; I know my son does every Christmas when we watch this film. And it’s not to say this movie isn’t ‘kid appropriate’; as I just said, we watch every year traditionally. However, it’s chockful of sadistic-leaning humor and just be aware. You know your kids and whether or not they can handle it as a fun movie, and not as something to shape their humor perception.

Bad Humor for Kids Takeaway

So what’s the takeaway about bad humor for kids that I really think parents and teachers need to know more than anything?

Be wise when it comes to the humor that influences your kids and students.

Vet children’s entertainment to ensure the comedy provided is not just quality comedy, but more than anything, is appropriate and helps build a good sense of humor rather than the opposite.

Unfortunately, it’s not safe to simply assume if it’s made for kids that it’s okay for kids!

For more from Fun Jokes about humor for kids, I suggest these:

• Should You Be Concerned About A Dry Personality For Kids?
• Explaining Cruel Humor to Kids (Versus Dark or Crude Humor)
• What Should Parents and Teachers Know About Sadistic Humor?
• Best Form of Humor for Kids and Others (Mom/Teacher Told)

Parents and teachers should know sadistic humor isn’t meant for kids, if anyone really. Unintentionally or not, it’s often embedded in children’s entertainment as sarcastic jokes and quips, as well as revenge themes and mischievous personalities, making supervision needed even for kid shows.

From children’s classics to modern animation for kids, as well as kids-targeted video games, there is a lot of sadistic or sadistic-leaning humor prevalent.

I’m happy to share my perspective as a mom and teacher on what other parents and teachers need to be aware of, as well as to combat, sadistic and/or dark humor influences in their kid’s and student’s entertainment.

What is a sadistic sense of humor?

Let’s first address what ‘sadistic’ means, and thus, what is meant by a sadistic sense of humor, as this is the initial question I’m asked by others when referring to this.

Sadistic humor is humor found by the pain of others, either causing it or enjoying it indirectly. Having a sadistic sense of humor means having an overall quality of finding the hurt or humiliation of others funny or amusing. Usually it refers to being very sarcastic and a bit mean in humor.

Sadistic means ‘taking pleasure from or in inflicting/causing pain, punishment, or humiliation in others.’

Merriam-Webster Dictionary

You might say that a person has a sadistic sense of humor if:

• He laughs when someone falls down.
• She replays someone’s humiliation for jokes.
• He puts a child’s failing grade on the refrigerator and remarks about it snidely.
• A person talks about mistakes you’ve made in front of others to laugh about it.
• Even something as ‘mild’ as a little boy pulling a little girl’s ponytail to make others laugh can be a sign of having a sadistic sense of humor, especially if the boy has been taught that it’s hurtful and he continues to do it anyway.

An example from a kid’s targeted show of sadistic humor is from Home Alone 2 (you can watch conveniently on Amazon Prime, linked here). Just about everyone’s seen both Home Alone (Amazon linked as well) and the hit follow-up starring child actor, Macaulay Culkin as Kevin McAllister. In this sequel, Kevin has a solo and his big (bully) brother Buzz shines light on Kevin’s ears using candles during Kevin’s song, making Kevin’s ears look ‘funny’. The entire audience starts laughing despite the obvious humiliation of a child. Therefore, Buzz is an example of someone with a sadistic sense of humor, and it could be said, the audience does too!

To read other Little Ninja Parenting articles like this one:

• What Parents Should Know About Shock Comedy (Revealed)
• The Lowest Form Of Humor- Puns, Sarcasm, Or Shock (Ranked)
• What Parents Should Know About Dark Comedians (Explained)
• Explaining Cruel Humor to Kids (Versus Dark or Crude Humor)

What is a sadistic person?

So does it mean, then, that someone with a sadistic sense of humor is a sadistic person?

Having a sadistic sense of humor could signal someone is sadistic, but more evidence of the extreme is needed. It’s possible to enjoy dark humor, but not be a sadist, narcissist, or even be an overall mean person. Typically, enjoying sadistic humor refers to someone who is sarcastic and cynical.

Be aware though; having a sadistic sense of humor can be taken to the extreme, and could be categorized as being a sadist.

This is because of the very definition of ‘sadistic’. Being sadistic means taking pleasure in the pain of others. This isn’t a virtue. It’s at the very least a dangerous habit to laugh and find humor in someone’s humiliation and harm.

However, enjoying sadistic humor isn’t the same as being a sadistic person. There is research that’s actually the opposite of this, showing that those rating high on the sadistic humor scale are actually low on the aggression and dark mood scales.

Is sadistic humor smart?

What does science say about sadistic humor? Is it a sign of intelligence?

Having a sadistic sense of humor is more common among intelligent people. This is because being able to recognize and apply sarcasm, satire, and irony (often connected to this type of humor) require the ability to read innuendo, double meanings, and covert patterns, part of higher level thinking.

But parents and teachers should use caution to excuse sadistic behavior because of its association with intelligence.

As explained, there is some evidence that those with a sadistic sense of humor have higher intelligence, or ‘are smart.’ Besides the need for understanding sarcasm, irony, and hidden meanings, research has also found a correlation with those who enjoy dark humor and having a higher I. Q. (Medical University of Vienna).

“Humor processing is a complex information-processing task,”

Cognitive Processing, a scientific journal

However, you can be smart without sarcasm too, and being smart doesn’t excuse rudeness either, so as parents and teachers we need to be cognizant of this, whenever kids lean towards sadistic or mean humor.

Problems with sadistic humor

To be clear, I admit to enjoying some dark humor. It’s funny to be sarcastic and wry; and having a bit of cynicism along with humor (another dark humor type) can actually help with our perspective and not taking things too seriously. But what about sadistic humor? What’s the problem there?

The main problem with sadistic humor is that it deliberately intends to hurt. It’s finding actual pain funny. While we’ve all laughed at someone falling down (especially if we’ve ever watched a single episode of America’s Funniest Videos), we’ve probably waited until we know that they are okay.

It’s funny to laugh at someone when they fall down…if they didn’t hurt themselves. If we laugh regardless of them breaking a leg, that’s not funny at all. That’s disturbing!

And while research shows that people who have a sense of sadistic humor aren’t necessarily sadistic, it’s true that those suffering from personality disorders like psychopathy or sociopathy are sadistic. So keep vigilant about humor influencing your child, or what you see them exhibiting.

It’s certainly not my intention to say your child who laughs when someone falls down is a sadist! Not at all! But if your child continues to laugh when others hurt, even after you’ve explained and taught that it’s not kind or appropriate, then you do have an issue to attend to. I’d start next with your pediatrician!

What is embedded or unintentional sadistic humor?

Many videogames employ sadistic humor. Let’s be honest, here. While most will have disclaimers saying ‘not intended for kids’ (Fortnite; Grand Theft Auto; Call of Duty, etc.), we and they know kids are a big part of their market! This is a form of unintentional or embedded sadistic humor for kids.

As a teacher of 3rd graders, I found that many of them were playing Fortnite! I sent out information to parents to explain the dangers of it, and some of the parents appreciated the information, but many others dismissed or excused it.

These games have violence in almost every scenario and most of it is accompanied by humor. I’ve seen some clips of characters killing other characters for ‘points’ and laughs. This teaches the children playing it to find humor in hurting others, even if it’s just virtual. And for many younger kids, or kids with learning disabilities like one of my sons, the line between virtual and reality is hazy!

Hidden Sadistic Humor- 3 Surprising Movies With Dark Humor

1.The Wizard of Oz (can be accessed on Amazon Prime) is hailed as one of the best children’s cinematic classics, suitable for all. And yes, it contains many sentimental and sweetly humored scenes, but also some of the most frighteningly memorable ones too like any scene with the Wicked Witch of the West and of course those flying monkeys! And most of these scenes, while intended to be scary, also included some humor and dark humor!

2. Gremlins (linked to Amazon, for purchase, if you wish) is rated PG, which by most all parent and teacher standards means ‘suitable for kids’, though in full disclosure the P and G stand for ‘parental guidance suggested.’

Some of the more disturbing parts for humor-sake: an overzealous Mrs. Deagle who wants to put the main character’s dog “to sleep” because it broke her Bavarian snowman; and of course, those mischief causing gremlins, who wear popcorn boxes on their ears while trying to kill, maim, and destroy, all acts depicted as ‘funny shenanigans’.

3. Coraline (linked to Amazon) has a distinctive eerie quality to its humor which can be associated with creating ‘sadistic humor for children’ certainly. While this animated version is based off Neil Gaiman’s book, Coraline (available in audio format with a free trial Audible membership), it’s the cartoon that young kids are most familiar with.

And while it’s rated for kids, and is considered animated quality, the button-eyes alone will give any child 10 and under nightmares. It’s dark, full of satire, and quite scary! If you choose to let your kids watch it, please watch alongside them.

Sadistic Humor Vs. Dark Comedy

What about sadistic humor and dark comedy? Are those the same things?

In the general sense, sadistic humor is a type of dark comedy. There are other types of dark comedy such as shock comedy and wry humor; even deadpan/dry comedy could be considered dark. Since sadistic humor finds pain and humiliation of others funny, that certainly qualifies as dark.

Some examples of dark, sadistic movies:

• Fargo– It’s an Oscar-worthy movie with some excellent acting. However, watching Fargo clearly shows a sadistic sense of humor, and Fargo is considered one of the best dark comedies of all time.
• Ready or Not– A more recent, dark comedy, it was released in 2019. It starts as a family gathering to celebrate a new marriage and ends with a sadistic contest of murder.
• Get Out– This movie, from comedian turned critically-acclaimed director Jordan Peele, is a horror and comedy mash up. It’s full of sarcasm, irony, and yes, lots of death and murder!

None of these examples are children appropriate! And I don’t think any clear dark, sadistic humor movie would be.

Sadistic Humor Vs. Shock Humor

Is sadistic and shock humor the same thing?

Sadistic and shock humor are not the same thing, though both are examples of dark comedy. It’s possible for shock humor to be sadistic and vice versa, but also possible for shock humor to not be about finding pain and humiliation funny. Sadistic humor has a tendency to be shocking to most though.

Sadistic Humor Takeaway for Parents and Teachers

So the main takeaway for sadistic humor that parents and teachers need to know is that it’s present in children’s entertainment, and usually embedded. This mean we can’t just take for granted that it being labeled for children means it’s innocent and suitable.

The best way to combat this is to preview or vet what your kids watch and play, and/or watch or play it with them so that when it comes up, you can address it correctly.

For more Little Ninja Parenting articles related to Sadistic Humor, I recommend these:

• What Parents Should Know About Shock Comedy (Revealed)
• The Lowest Form Of Humor- Puns, Sarcasm, Or Shock (Ranked)
• What Parents Should Know About Dark Comedians (Explained)
• Explaining Cruel Humor to Kids (Versus Dark or Crude Humor)

Recommended Additional Resource: Psychology Today